Routines and Structure
Routines give children a sense of security and help them develop self-discipline. A predictable routine allows children to feel safe, and to develop a sense of mastery in handling their lives. Routines teach kids how to constructively manage themselves and their environments.
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Why Kids Need Routines
Children handle change best if it is expected and occurs in the context of a familiar routine. A routine allows children to feel safe and develop a sense of mastery in handling life.
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Building an evening routine for kids of different ages
Routines have lots of benefits including making kids feel secure and helping them want to cooperate (because they don't feel so pushed around).
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Starting a Family Routine
There are so many benefits of having routines for kids! Here are five tips for implementing one with your children.
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Routines that Toddlers Can Understand
Young children function best with structured schedules. A predictable routine allows kids to feel safe, and to develop a sense of mastery in their lives.
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